Walidain Ek Azeem Naimat

Insaan ki zindagi mein sabse badi aur sabse qeemti daulat agar koi hai to woh uske walidain hain. Allah Ta’ala ne Qur’an Majeed mein kai jagah walidain ke maqam, unki khidmat aur unka adab karne ka zikr farmaya hai. Walidain insaan ke liye woh darakht ki tarah hote hain jiske saaye mein bacha chain se rehta hai, aur jiske phal se woh zindagi bhar faida uthata hai.

Qur’an mein Allah Ta’ala farmata hai:
“Aur humne insaan ko wasiyat ki apne walidain ke saath bhalai karein.” (Surah Luqman, 14)
Ye ayat saaf taur par bata rahi hai ke walidain ke saath husn-e-sulook karna sirf ek ikhlaqi farz nahi, balke Allah ka hukm hai.

Walidain ki mohabbat aur unka pyaar insaan ke liye woh noor hai jo har andheron mein raah dikhata hai. Maa ka pyar duniya ka sabse shafqat bhara pyar hai. Maa apne bache ke liye apni jaan tak qurbaan kar deti hai. 9 mahine tak bache ko apne reham mein sambhalna, uske liye takleef uthana aur paida hone ke baad bhi din raat jag kar uski khidmat karna maa ka sabse bara ihsaan hai. Is liye Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Jannat tumhari maaon ke qadam ke neeche hai.” (Nisai Shareef)
Yani agar insaan apni maa ki khidmat kare, usko khush kare, to uske liye jannat ka raasta aasaan ho jata hai.

Baap ki shafqat aur qurbani bhi utni hi azeem hai. Baap din raat mehnat karta hai taake apne bacho ke liye rozi kama sake, unko achhi taleem aur behtareen zindagi de sake. Baap ke bina ghar adhoora lagta hai. Woh bachon ke liye shadeed garmi mein dhoop sah kar aur sardi mein thand jhel kar bhi unke liye rizq ka intezam karta hai.

Hazrat Imam Ghazali Rehmatullah Alaih likhte hain ke walidain ki ita‘at aur unka adab insaan ke liye dunya aur aakhirat dono mein barkat ka sabab banta hai. Jo apne walidain ka adab karta hai, Allah uske liye rizq mein izafa karta hai aur uske liye zindagi aasaan banata hai.

Ala Hazrat Imam Ahmad Raza Khan Barelvi Rehmatullah Alaih bhi farmate hain:
“Walidain ki khidmat aur unka adab aisa amal hai jisse insaan ke gunah maaf hote hain aur uske darajat buland hote hain.”
Unhone is baat par zor diya ke walidain ke saath narmi, mohabbat aur izzat ke saath pesh aana sirf ikhlaqi fard nahi balke shar‘i fard hai.

Aaj ke daur mein afsos hai ke bohot se log apne walidain ko bhoj samajhne lagte hain. Jab woh boodhe ho jate hain aur kamzor ho jate hain, to unke bachay unko ignore kar dete hain. Ye insaan ke liye sabse bari badbakhti hai. Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Sharminda ho uska chehra jisne apne maa baap ko budhape mein paya aur phir bhi jannat hasil na kar saka.” (Muslim Shareef)
Is hadith se saaf sabit hota hai ke walidain ki khidmat jannat hasil karne ka sabse aasaan tareeqa hai.

Walidain insaan ke liye aisi dua ka zariya hain jo kabhi rad nahi hoti. Maa ki dua aur baap ki dua insaan ke liye jadoo ka kaam karti hai. Jab walidain apne bacho ke liye dua karte hain to woh dua aasman tak uth kar Allah ke huzoor mein qubool ho jati hai.

Ek waqi‘a hai ke ek Sahabi ne apne kandhe par apni maa ko uthakar tawaf kiya aur phir poocha: “Ya Rasool Allah ﷺ! Kya maine apni maa ka haq ada kar diya?” Nabi Kareem ﷺ ne farmaya:
“Nahi, tumne uska haq abhi tak ada nahi kiya. Sirf us waqt ki takleef ke barabar bhi nahi jo usne tumhe paida karte waqt uthayi thi.” (Ibn Majah)
Ye waqi‘a is baat ki daleel hai ke maa ka haq itna bada hai ke insaan sari zindagi bhi uski khidmat kare to bhi uska ek qatra bhi ada nahi kar sakta.

Is liye hamesha chahiye ke insaan apne walidain ki izzat kare, unki khidmat kare, unki duayein le aur unki khushi ko apni zindagi ka sabse bara maqsad banaye. Jo apne walidain ko khush karta hai, Allah uske liye apne fazl ke darwaze khol deta hai.

Nateeja:

Walidain waqai ek azeem naimat hain. Jo insaan apne walidain ki qadr karta hai, unki khidmat karta hai, unka adab karta hai, woh dunya mein bhi kamyab hota hai aur aakhirat mein bhi jannat ka mustahiq banta hai. Humein chahiye ke apne walidain ki mohabbat ko apna zevar banayein aur unki duaein lene ko apni zindagi ki sabse badi kamyabi samjhein.